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Europeans are less hospitable

Ssuuna
16 Sep 2011

It’s an African culture to welcome each and every person who comes to you no matter his/her race, colour, religion or whether there is an appointment or not. We even have the saying: ‘There is no road in the house, every person who comes is a visitor’. I figured out it's not like that in Europe.

Africans are very hospitable people, not only to their fellow Africans but also to the whites who visit their countries. In Europe it’s a little bit different because you can never go to someone when you don’t have an appointment and someone can never just welcome you to his/her house like in Africa. In my continent people just jump in without an appointment, notice or even a phone call. In my view, this makes Africans more hospitable than Europeans.

However, when the whites go to Africa they are received by Africans with one heart and you hear many of them saying that despite of poverty, wars, and disease Africans are happy and hospitable as one Dutch young lady who was in Africa said: ‘The moment I reached Rwanda I felt this is where I belong no matter that I’m Dutch,” she said. Bibiche said that she was on a study trip in Rwanda and she was impressed with the way she was treated: ‘People who picked me up from the airport hosted, fed and helped me with my research’ she said. ‘I was like a little queen something you cannot find in the Netherlands,’ she continued. I was also expecting to be treated in same way Bibiche was treated in Rwanda but it was very different.

Skin colour

It was different because some Europeans treated me based on my colour. It happened to me one day when I called a taxi to take me somewhere but before the driver could start the car he first asked me if I had the money to pay him. ‘Do you really have the money?’ he asked me three times in a big voice.

In my opinion, he thought that since I was black I could not afford to hire a taxi. Sometimes in public transport means, when the controllers come in to check those who have no tickets they start with black people because they think that blacks are more criminal than whites are. European racism is not so directly exposed but it is shown in small things like when you get lost in an area and you try to ask the whites for directions. They can ignore you; refuse to give you advice or the right directions. However, in Africa when a white person gets lost in an area people just fight to give him/her the right directions!

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kandy

Wednesday 21 Sep 2011 18:14 h

I do study in russia,i agree with what you wrote,on tv,i was watching the news,in the news i saw a video of a russian man who had just had a car accident, he was in pain,as a normal human being,my thought was that by-passers will come to his aid but i was suprised people where they looking at him suffering then i thought to myself,if they can do it to their own fellow citizen,what will they do to me,if i was in that same situation?

 

Bjorn

Wednesday 12 Oct 2011 16:05 h

Dear Ssuuna,

Having lived in your country for over two years, I find your description of African hospitality to be inaccurate. Other than from my inlaws, I never received invites or did social interactions go beyond basic pleasantries. Walking around Kampala, or even Entebbe, I would reguarly be told to 'go home' (Mzungu dejo, spelling?) or otherwise be rudely addressed. I'll have to admit it got to me and I usually stayed in or around the house.

Now as you point out, Europeans are not always pleasant either. I'd like to find out though, how many times during your stay in the Netherlands were you told that you were not welcome there? The examples you point out would apply to Europeans too. I do not talk to strangers myself, regardless of colour. It is not our thing.

And indeed we are not good with unexpected guests. Imagine most people's day though: wake up at 6-7 am, stuck in traffic for an hour, work for 8-9 hours, come home (stuck in traffic again), cook, clean, spend time with the kids, help them with their home work or take them to soccer practice, crash on the couch for an hour and off to bed. Entertaining guests without notice is difficult when you're fully booked, and your guests will have a similar schedule themselves anyway.

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